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Saturday, February 15, 2014
Can Premature Ejaculation Ruin Your Sex Life Heres the Straight Scoop How You Can Last Longer!
By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com
If you want to be the kind of superb lover who gets to enjoy new exciting heights of sexual pleasure and keep his woman sexually fulfilled anytime, anywhere, then keep reading this article.
Can premature ejaculation ruin your sex life?
Well, it depends. You see, premature ejaculation only becomes an issue if it is causing a great deal of distress or discomfort for BOTH your partner and you. If your woman gets an orgasm even if you ejaculate within 2 minutes, and is happy with it, there is no need to fret over your seemingly short performance. In fact, there are many premature ejaculators who regularly bring their partners to an orgasm with oral sex or even sufficient foreplay before intercourse. If you can fulfill your woman before intercourse, it does not matter how long you last!
But of course, lasting longer can only help your sexual relationship
Indeed, sex will be much more satisfying if a guy can engage in intercourse for a full 10 to 15 minutes without ejaculating (that is how long it takes on average for a woman to reach an orgasm through intercourse). The sexual arousal that slowly builds up during penetrative sex will provide a far more exquisite sexual pleasure, and can eventually lead to a titillating vaginal orgasm - which is not possible if a guy ejaculates within 2 to 4 minutes of intercourse.
The real truth about premature ejaculation and how to deal with it
Premature ejaculation is far more common than you would probably think. So there is no need to blame yourself for not being able to last long enough in bed. Premature ejaculation is commonly defined as lasting no more than 3 minutes of vaginal penetration more than 50% of the time. But heres the thing: while being able to last for hours during sex is probably rare, premature ejaculation is actually easy to control without medical or professional help.
The key to putting a stop to early ejaculation is by learning how your body behaves at each stage of your sexual response cycle. Simply put, if you are quick to ejaculate, you must learn to recognize your tipping point and how to reduce your sexual arousal. By learning how to stay below this tipping point, you will keep your sexual arousal in check and gain superior control over your ejaculatory lexes.
About the author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.
Saturday Throwback Last Minute Little Dinners for One Tips Ideas and 25 Recipes
Every Saturday, we post a piece from the CHG archives. Todays comes from March 2009, right after St. Patricks Day.
A few months ago, our own Jaime posted a piece called Little Meals for One. It was a brief, well thought-out article all about simple, small-scale home cooking. I loved it, as did many readers who were looking for both inspiration and validation. (A spoonful of peanut butter IS TOO a meal, dangit.)
Because sometimes? You just want food in your mouthhole. You want it in a single portion, and you want it a.s.a.p. Why? Well, maybe you’re late coming home from the office. Maybe it’s a lazy Sunday afternoon in August, and you have no great urge to further heat your already-sweltering apartment with a 450ºF oven. Maybe you’re just really hungry, and whipping up a whole lasagna for one person seems totally freaking insane.
Unfortunately, quick, single-portion recipes are hard to come by, probably because it’s difficult to prepare most gourmet meals in smaller serving sizes. So, how do you do it? How do you make a convenient, speedy meal without resorting to A) expensive and unhealthy processed food, B) takeout, or C) licking crumbs off your kitchen floor?
Well, first, it’s good to keep tricks these in mind:
- Keep your rigerator, pantry, and freezer stocked with food easily portioned into small servings: eggs, cheese, pasta, etc.
- When you buy bigger packages of food (meat, veggies, etc.), portion them off in smaller grab-and-go bags as soon as you arrive home from the supermarket.
- Look for recipes where you broil, grill, steam, sauté, boil, and microwave. Avoid recipes where you roast, braise, soak, brine, or marinate.
- Keep low-cost, high-impact condiments and ingredients handy. Stuff like soy sauce, capers, olives, roasted red peppers, parmesan, curry powder/sauce, Dijon mustard, and horseradish can lend big flavor to tiny dishes in a hurry.
- Don’t limit yourself to traditional dinner cuisine. Breakfast and lunch foods taste just as good at 7pm.
- Don’t limit yourself to traditional American cuisine. Soups, curries, and stir fries are healthier and just as fast as burgers and hot dogs.
- Consider raw fruits and vegetables for side dishes. They’re healthy as all get out, and take zero time to prepare.
- Load up your freezer to your heart’s content. Frozen meats and produce can be defrosted quickly and cooked even faster. Consider canned versions of certain foods, as well, but be discerning when it comes to both sodium content and taste.
- Before you do anything, scan your fridge for ideas and ingredients. Bits and pieces can become ingredients in larger, more delicious meals.
- Speaking of bits and pieces, consider using many smaller foods to create one large meal. Eggs, a piece of fruit, and a side of ried beans never killed anyone.
- Most of all, K.I.S.S. (Keep it Simple, Sistah)
- Bagels (with low-fat cream cheese, lox, butter, PB&J, etc.)
- Baked potatoes
- Breads (with dips, cheese, veggies, or quick soups)
- Chicken or turkey sausages
- Cottage cheese
- Couscous mixed with anything (chopped vegetables, beans, etc.)
- Crackers with toppings of your choice
- Eggs (omelets, scrambled, sandwiches, baked, etc.)
- Fruit
- Grilled or broiled chicken or pork tenders
- Mashed black, pinto, or cannellini beans
- Oatmeal (sweet or savory, a la Mark Bittman)
- Pasta (with sauce, vegetables, cheese, etc.)
- Pierogies (boiled/steamed)
- Pizza bagels/English Muffin pizzas
- Portobello mushrooms
- Raw vegetables with simple dips (hummus, baba ghanouj, etc.)
- Rice mixed with vegetables and/or salsa
- Salads (vegetables, fruit, bean, or otherwise)
- Sandwiches (hummus, PB&J, grilled cheese)
- Shish kabobs (meat, veggies, or fruit broiled on a stick)
- Smoothies
- Steamed or sautéed veggies
- Stir fry
- Turkey burgers
- Wraps and/or soft tacos
- Yogurt
- Autumn Apple Salad
- Baked Eggs
- Black-Eyed Pea Salad
- Bodega Beans
- Broiled Eggplant Japonaise
- Creamy Parmesan Orzo
- Egg Drop Soup
- Egg McMuffins
- Eggplant Mini Pizzas
- Garlicky Broccoli Rabe
- Grape and Feta Salad with Rosemary
- Hummus
- Light Chinese Chicken and Broccoli
- Light Garlic Bread
- Miso Soup
- Moroccan Beet Green Omelet
- North African Style Chickpea Salad
- Pancakes (Buttermilkand Whole Wheat Buttermilk)
- Parmesan-crusted Portobello Mushrooms
- Pea Soup
- Polenta
- Refried Beans
- Roasted Asparagus with Poached Egg and Parmesan
- Shaksouka (Eggs Poached in Tomato Sauce)
- Stuffed Peppers
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